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July 13, 2009

Make Heroes of Those Around You - Don't Be a Giraffe!  The Andy Griffith Show - Dogs, Dogs, Dogs.

Make Heroes of Those Around You - Don't Be a Giraffe! The Andy Griffith Show - Dogs, Dogs, Dogs.

I posted a free video of Judy Miller a while back. Judy owns RSVP Communications. In the video, she tells some great stories and gives some great advice, but there are three statements she makes that really stand out. These three statements really convey why she's been successful where others have failed...

"I've always had a servants heart, to make other people look good and to make heroes out of people".

"When you love yourself and the people that come into your life, if you can convince them that they're lovable..."

"Make people feel special about what they have going on..."

- Judy Miller

It Has to Be Real
Judy does NOT do these things as a means to an end, but because she really believes that the way to achieve something is to help others achieve something. That's the basis for her business - making businesses look good to both their prospective customers and to their existing customers.

Don't Be a Selfish Giraffe!
If you've been reading this blog for long, you'll know that I'm a huge fan of the Andy Griffith Show. In one episode, "Dogs, Dogs, Dogs", Barney and Andy are dealing with a pack of run away dogs. They take them to a field way out in the country and let them go. Later, as a storm is coming, Opey is worried about the dogs. Barney says that there's nothing to worry about, that the bigger dogs will look out for the smaller dogs. He continues on saying that if they were giraffes then you'd have to worry because giraffes are selfish, just looking out for number one!

Here's a link to part of the episode I'm referring to: The Andy Griffith Show: Dogs, Dogs, Dogs.

I don't know if Barney's right or not about giraffes, but you can only get so far by being selfish, sooner or later people and customers will avoid you. At the same time, if you're always doing for others, it's easy to be taken advantage of. You have to find a productive, working balance. Judy obviously found it.

In fact, in the Andy Griffith Show, Andy spent most of his time making others look good, making them look like heroes.

Some in the Internet Business / Marketing field are always preaching "over deliver". That's kind of the same thing. Don't be afraid to charge for your products or services, but make sure that you're giving the customers something they will feel good about. That they have no question you're on their side, wanting to help them and make their lives better.

I would sell more of my SEO Secrets Revealed product at $10 than at $97, but do I want customers who are not willing to pay a fair price for a product? If a person does not realize that $97 is a small price to pay for getting better search engine ranking, would they really utilize the information? I could charge $997, and I could easily argue that it's worth it, but that would price it out of a lot of people's hands that really need the information. Plus I probably wouldn't sell very many! Do I over deliver at $97? I think so. Would I over deliver more at $10 - maybe, but at $10, the value of the product is compromised. I want customers that I can help, but that are willing to pay for that help.

In Judy's statements above and in the video, she never says she gives away her services for free. She says to care about your customers, people in general, and especially your good employees. Go the extra mile and make heroes out of your customers, employees, family, and fellow human beings. You'll be much better off by doing so!

Until Next Time,
Fred

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  1. From: Internet Business With Purpose

    You're right Fred,

    If you give someone something for free (or at low cost)they won't value it as much- even if it's a new car for example.

    If I work for something or pay a little higher price for a product it will be worth a lot more to me.

    By the way, I've purchased your "SEO Secrets Revealed" product and have found it very valuable.

    Thanks for over-delivering!

    Greg

    Posted by Internet Business With Purpose on July 13, 2009 4:59 PM

  2. From: Hakan Selvi

    People do not respect the things which they get for free and they do not value it so much. If someone respects your free things then you feel happy about it and then you continue to give it again and again.
    It is necessary to be selfish at sometimes and if you are not then people may take undue advantage of it.

    Posted by Hakan Selvi on July 14, 2009 1:51 AM

  3. From: Daniel da Silva'

    yeah sure i am agreed to all of your points but i also think about the comments of HAKAN SALVI as he has said that we should be selfish little bit for the protection of ourselves!

    Posted by Daniel da Silva' on July 15, 2009 7:11 AM

  4. From: Mike

    There should be a limit for giving free and i know that it is not advice able to give it for free always. This post will teach many a lot as it has taught me many new things.

    Posted by Mike on July 16, 2009 7:38 AM

  5. From: Healthy Lifestyle

    People look for free things and they make total use of it. If the free things they get are in excess then i am sure that they won't have any respect for it and they will not make total use of it.

    Posted by Healthy Lifestyle on July 20, 2009 9:16 AM

  6. From: Free games

    Free things are taken for granted by people and they are not use it appropriately. This is indeed a great post and many people will definitely learn from it.

    Posted by Free games on July 28, 2009 1:01 AM

  7. From: Daniel

    I don't mind paying for a product as long as it's quality. Giving away things for free usually compromise that quality greatly.

    Posted by Daniel on August 26, 2009 2:12 PM

  8. From: thomas hatley

    I lthink that having a large amount of money does scare alot of
    people and we have to get over the fear.You are so right and thanks
    for the information.My dad always made a big deal of money and
    frankly i think it held me back from making alot of money.

    Posted by thomas hatley on August 31, 2009 11:05 AM

  9. From: Management Mentoring

    I think, on the internet, people expect something for free although I don't think many of them take it for granted. Great blog post.

    Posted by Management Mentoring on September 1, 2009 8:11 AM

 


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