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September 16, 2009

Social Networking Common Sense

Social Networking Common Sense

Social Networking is all the rage these days. Every Internet Business Guru Wannabe is proclaiming his or her secret method to making Twitter or Facebook or Myspace put dollars in your pocket.

Well Bubba let me throw in my opinion. If you're using these social networks to promote you or your business in a marketing effort then you need to follow a set of rules.

Fred's Social Networking Rules for Business Use...

Use Some Common Sense: I'm always surprised when people post things that they obviously have not thought about how someone else may interpret. If it's not your business and you work there, don't post things like "my boss sucks" or "I can't wait to get out of here" or "our clients are sooo stupid to use us"! People do actually read what you write...

If it IS your business, or you're in business for yourself always present a good, solid, positive image and never post things that make you look bad... and that looking bad thing is not always easy to discern, so think about it from a potential client's perspective, not yours. This seems like common sense but it's very easy to just post anything that crosses your mind - don't!

Get Personal: Why do people follow someone? Because they're interested in that person. Why do all those gossip magazines you see at the checkout at the grocery store sell so many copies? Because people want to know the "behind the scenes" and "personal lives' of celebrities. You may not be a celebrity but people are interested and will be more interested if you let them into a little of your personal life. Post about your kids once in a while. Show a cute photo. Post about your pets every now and then. Post about issues that everyone can identify with, especially if you have a unique or humorous way to deal with it.

Use Your Name: It's uncomfortable at first to use your real name and start posting, but you need to. You're not trying to hide, you're trying to build a following and create a relationship with your followers. If you use an alias it will come off as disingenuous.

Add New Networks Slowly: Don't jump into all of the social networks the same week. Give yourself some time to get to know how each works and get comfortable using one before setting up an account on the next one.

Link Them: The Internet is linked together... so don't forget to link your social networks so that someone following you on Twitter will see that you have a web page, and a Facebook account, and a MySpace account, etc.

Keep 'em Updated: Once you have a few social network accounts, it's gets a little hard to keep the up the discipline to update them regularly. It's important that you do. Some you can configure to update others automatically, others' you can't. But if you update or post on one, it's a good idea to update the others you have accounts on... you don't need to keep them 100% in sync but any large item or important information should be posted on all networks that you have accounts.

Don't Sell, Tell: Most social networking situations do not work well for direct selling. Instead, provide communication, information, and build a following. Driving people to your sales site, or main web site, is fine but don't try to sell directly on the social sites.

Interact: This should be a "well Duh!" point, but it's important to drive this home. The whole point to social networking is to network. If you think you're too good to interact with your clients or fans then it's probably best that you don't do try social networking. You don't have to answer each and very comment, but it's amazing how big of an impact some interaction will have (see my real world example below).

Leave the Games, Surveys, and Toys to Personal Users: Your followers are following you because they respect you, your business, or your [insert whatever you do here]. If you're busy doing whatever it is you do, then you shouldn't have time to play all those stupid games that go around on Facebook, or have a Myspace profile that takes 3 minutes to load because of all the crap you put on it, etc., etc., etc. The professionalism of your account needs to match your business - an attorney would have a different level of seriousness than a used car dealer, but neither one should have the games, surveys, or other crap on their site, layout, or profile.

A real-world example
Social networking is all about interacting with your followers and building a community and rapport. Even before Facebook, Myspace, Twitter, and other social networking sites, my real-world example was using an old-fashioned message board to build a huge following. Rhonda Vincent is my real-world example. Rhonda is, according to the Wall Street Journal, the Queen of Bluegrass. Way back when most artists had static web sites, Rhonda put a message board on her site and mentioned it at performances. Her band is called the Rage and she (or someone) coined the term for the people posting on her message board as "Ragers". She even had buttons made up for them. The message board turned into a community because Rhonda would personally post, as well as comment, on some threads. People became friends without ever having met. It created such a close knit community that prayer requests are very common. Rhonda is extremely talented, but as we all know from my previous post, Talent is Never Enough. She has embraced technology as it's become available. She has a weekly chat over a messenger client. She has live webcasts from her studio when she's recording. She's on most every social network. Some people try to use technology to hide behind, Rhonda uses technology to let her remain close to her fans and interact with them. The result is a fan base who will go to battle for her. Rhonda pretty much follows the rules I've outlined above and it shows.

The lessons here are many: embrace it, use it, promote it, and be genuine with it.

Until next time,
Fred
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  1. From: Golf Shoes

    Very Useful Information on Social Networking
    I agree with your points mentioned
    People really take social networking seriously
    good article
    Thanks

    Posted by Golf Shoes on September 17, 2009 5:41 AM

  2. From: Copywriting Tips

    Great rules to keep in mind for just about any social network. I like to balance business and personal tweets on Twitter because I think sharing personal stuff helps followers to bond with you.

    Also, all business and no personal stuff gets kinda boring after a while.

    Ryan

    Posted by Copywriting Tips on September 17, 2009 5:09 PM

  3. From: Annuity

    Very well written article on social networking. I see the rules you have mentioned are very important because online marketing is the present trend and viral marketing is getting a hotter trend day by day.

    Thanks,
    Steve

    Posted by Annuity on September 19, 2009 1:59 AM

  4. From: karamjit

    It is very true that social networking can take you to great heights. Social networks are booming quite a lot in recent years. Many people are quite unaware of the fact of social networks, the info given by you will be of great help to a lot of people and it would be especially great for new users.

    Posted by karamjit on September 20, 2009 4:55 AM

  5. From: Terry

    I certainly agree that using common sense is important. Its all about what you want your target market to see you as not necessarily what you are feeling like on that day. Outputting a consistent message helps your brand on social media.

    Posted by Terry on October 6, 2009 6:22 PM

  6. From: web design springfield mo

    Awesome blog! Bookmarked and Dugg!

    Posted by web design springfield mo on October 14, 2009 10:17 PM

  7. From: realtor in The Ridges

    In future dude, no wonder with the amount of social networks rising and with the competition I can see that this job could be delegated to any expert as well. The boss will simply email the person what he should be posting about and to what extent you should go personal and post my private information.

    And employees, please never ever post any negative things regarding your job or boss or about anyone. They're like to find it out. Use some common sense because many companies now regularly check their employee's facebook profiles to see what's happening and for new recruits as well about their friends circle etc.

    This sounds too much but yes common sense is very important, you're presenting your profile and keeping it open to millions of users so it should be such that no one creates a negative image of you by seeing your profile.

    And yeah sending them to your site would be great but if you start selling it directly, it'll only annoy people.

    It's one of the best articles I've read so thank you :)

    -

    Ken Lowman


    Posted by realtor in The Ridges on October 18, 2009 1:28 AM

  8. From: Yoga Bag

    I like when people post they hate their job and their boss and coworkers are their friends on facebook.

    Posted by Yoga Bag on November 1, 2009 2:52 AM

  9. From: SEO Marketing Experts

    The "Duh" moment that you refer to about interacting is common because most businesses want a one-shot quick fix and don't understand that there's a conversation at hand.

    Posted by SEO Marketing Experts on November 17, 2009 9:35 AM

  10. From: Steven Niel

    Funny though that a lot of this does not come as common since for a lot of people. You gotta love it when you see your co-worker that does no work sitting on facebook all day long. No wonder those TPS reports never get done LOL.

    Posted by Steven Niel on February 12, 2010 7:36 PM

  11. From: JCM

    Couldn't agree more, I see numerous people on Facebook make this mistake EVERY single day. "Customers are bugging me!" etc. etc. Hilarious to know that they are literally friends with their boss and owners of the companies.

    Posted by JCM on March 9, 2010 12:05 PM

  12. From: LV Realt Estate

    Good points, thank you.

    Posted by LV Realt Estate on June 17, 2010 6:32 PM

  13. From: Las Vegas million dollar homes for sale

    Social networking is getting more and more common and I don't think that's going to change. Socializing is a core human trait.

    Posted by Las Vegas million dollar homes for sale on October 18, 2010 6:20 AM

  14. From: dee oneal

    I do agree with you. It is then sure that social networking is building followers not exactly traffic because it is secondary. Maybe traffic will go directly if you have build reputation. If you wanna be known online and want to create your own brand or name then try social networking.

    Posted by dee oneal on November 12, 2010 7:46 PM

 


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