Internet Business Blog
« Previous | Home | Next »

 

Success does not happen by chance, it requires change.

Share/Bookmark

February 19, 2007

Magic Mirror Tricks #1

Life is like looking in one of those trick mirrors that makes you look really tall or really fat or really wavy. It's not always what it appears to be on the surface and quite often if you just look at the surface you'll find that your life ends up being quite less than desirable.

Your life is what you make it to be. When you read stories or watch a movie about someone that hits rock bottom and then turns their life around to achieve astounding greatness, do you wonder how they were able to do that? Do you look at your own life, wishing you could achieve more? We all do. Some people can change course without hitting rock bottom, others have to reach that point of standing on the edge of an abyss before turning around, and still some plunder into the abyss, lost forever.

Like a large ship, a life that's filled with work, family, other activities, and responsibilities cannot turn and change course quickly. I believe that's why some people can't change - they're not willing to derail enough of the status quo to make a difference. Think about the classic movie scene of a twin engine airplane over water that's heavily loaded down, looses an engine, and is too heavy to stay airborne: they start jettisoning everything they can throw out to stay alive and in the air. So it is with a person's life. If you suffer a string of negative events, for example, getting laid off from your job, your wife leaves you, you loose your house, you can begin a downward spiral that heads down quickly and steadily and before long you reach a point where you either fall into the abyss or you come face to face with the fact that you are nothing except what you believe yourself to be.

I think therefore I am - Rene Descartes, 17th century.

The Moody Blues knew it, and quoted Descartes in In The Beginning from the 1969 album On the Threshold Of A Dream.

One is only poor if they choose to be - Dolly Parton. Dolly knew it in 1970 or 1971 when she wrote My Coat of Many Colors.

It ain't no secret - this type of thinking has been around a long time! Read Ron Killian's post over at his blog about "The Secret": www.webweaverproductions.com/self-development/the-secret-its-never-been-a-secret.

Life is sneaky and it's easy to miss the early warning signs that you're not heading down the course you think you are. It's easy to be normal and follow the herd until any course correction takes so much force that you think it's impossible or you're just not willing to do it.

So, Life's Magic Mirror Trick #1 is that we are responsible for our own reality; it just doesn't look like we have that power. We have to see past that mirage before we can turn our lives around.


The lyrics below are from 1975, from Dan Fogelberg.
The Man in the Mirror

The man in the mirror
He keeps getting nearer
But I am not moving
The man in the backstreet
Is holding a track meet
But I will not run.

Someplace inside you a
Seed has been born
You've got to watch it grow
Someplace inside you
A river is waiting to flow
Will you let it go?

Those voices you're hearing
Are never worth fearing
They're only inside you
They'll tempt you and taunt you
They'll help you and haunt you
But don't try to hide.

Sometimes the sun will be
Right at your shoulder
Helping you keep your stride
Sometimes you might have to give up
A piece of your pride
Have you even tried?

The man in the mirror
He keeps getting nearer
But I am not moving
The man in the backstreet
Is holding a track meet
But I will not run.

Someplace inside you a
Seed has been born
You've got to watch it grow
Someplace inside you
A river is waiting to flow
Will you let it go?

- Dan Fogelberg, The Man in the Mirror from his Captured Angel album 1975.

Until next time,
Fred

Share/Bookmark

Tip Jar: Leave a Donation

Comments: 2,   TrackBacks: 0.

Posted by Fred on February 19, 2007 | Printer-Friendly

TrackBack: http://www.pqInternet.com/Blog/mt-tb.cgi/20

You may reprint or distribute this article as long as you leave the content intact, list me at the author, and include a link back to this web site... see this page: linking back to this blog.

Assigned Categories: Life | Truth and Freedom

Related Entries:


    Get Free Updates! Enter your name and e-mail address to receive a short notice each time I make a new post.

    First Name:

    Last Name:

    E-Mail Address:

    E-Mail again:

    NOTE: You will receive a confirmation email. You must click the link in the email to activate your free updates. Please check your spam folder(s) if you don't receive the email.


    Comments and TrackBacks
      Comments:
    1. From: divinespiritlove

      Hello there, thank you very much for being here and doing exactly what you are doing, sharing. I wanted to take the time to reply to share with you and tell you about a blog I found that changed my life on every level.

      One of my favorite article posts is: "How to Find Your Passion and Make It Your Career"...Here is a direct link: http://www.worldwidenlightenment.com/82.html

      I hope you love it and enjoy it as much as I do.

      Keep doing what you do. You are wonderful!

      Posted by divinespiritlove on April 4, 2007 7:51 PM

    2. From: divinespiritlove

      Hello again,

      I just wanted to let you know that the link above in my last comment does not work anymore. The site moved to: http://consciousflex.blogspot.com/

      Keep up the fantastic work my friend, I love your work!

      Posted by divinespiritlove on February 11, 2008 9:44 PM

     


    Post A Comment




    Remember personal info?




    Comment Policy <--- Read the comment policy (Updated 1/13/2010).

    About  Contact  Free Products Fred W. Black

    RSS, EMail, Facebook...

    Subscribe by EMail

    RSS 2.0 Feed for www.pqInternet.com.
    Add to Google Toolbar

    Free Updates via EMail

    Receive Free Updates.

    Free Products and Software.

    My Services

    www.pqWorks.com

    Search

    Link to Me!

    How to Link to this Blog.

    Products

    Products I Use & Recommend

    www.3WayLinks.Net

    www.1WayLinks.Net

    30 Days to Change Your Life!

    Z Plus Subliminal Clearing

    Free Traffic System

    Wordtracker Keyword Research Tool

    www.aweber.com Opt-In List Management.

    1&1 Hosting

    Categories

    All

    ClickBank

    Copywriting

    Funny

    Internet Business

    Internet Marketing

    Life

    Search Engines: SEO

    Social Media

    Technology

    Traffic

    Truth and Freedom

    Videos (free)

    Web Site Design, HTML, CSS

    Recent Entries

    The Lost Art (and Appreciation) of Quality

    Knowledge without Wisdom is Dangerous.

    11 Reasons You're Failing

    How to Change Your Life in 30 Days?

    Barney Fife Chases the SEO Bandits at J.C. Penny

    Have You Been Slapped by the Google Ranking Adjustment?

    Advertising on Facebook

    How to Use Social Media to Grow a Brick and Mortar Business...

    Facebook Fan Pages and Static FBML Part 3: iFrames!

    Facebook Fan Pages and Static FBML Part 2

    Facebook Fan Pages and Static FBML - Part 1

    Texting Social Media Updates - Useful vs. Useless

    Success or Failure in an Internet Business Depends on Who's Looking Back at You in the Mirror...

    Bullets from God - The Greatest Copywriter of All Time?

    Success is not Sticky - You Have to Hold the BALL!

    All Entries

    Recently Commented On

    Bullets from God - The Greatest Copywriter of All Time?

    11 Reasons You're Failing

    Facebook Fan Pages and Static FBML Part 3: iFrames!

    How to Change Your Life in 30 Days?

    Barney Fife Chases the SEO Bandits at J.C. Penny

    Knowledge without Wisdom is Dangerous.

    The Lost Art (and Appreciation) of Quality

    Are you Fishing with Bird Seed?

    Archives

    All

    Money Attracting Products

    Make Custom Gifts at CafePress

    Blog Roll

    Do More Than Pray (.com)

    Terry Dean

    Ryan Healy

    ProBlogger

    Internet Business Resources Blog

    Michel Fortin

    G. Brent Riggs

    Jonathan Leger

    Mark J Ryan

    Dr. Joe Vitale

    Search Engine Journal

    Effortless Abundance

    Friday Traffic Report

    Links

    Burlington Dance Center

    Front Street Playschool

    the IconFactory

    Fred Black Music

    Daryl Laws Sports Performance Blog

    Williams High School Booster Club

    Jacob Ingle

    Light Peak

    Repairing Canon Lens Error

    Cell Phones for Soldiers

    Web Hosting

    My Recommended Web Hosting Service: 1&1 Hosting

    About this Blog...

    By:Fred W. Black

    Contact Information

    Powered by:Movable Type 3.34.

    Copyright 2006 -2011, PhaseQuest.Com.
    All rights reserved.

    Subscribe by EMail RSS 2.0 Feed for www.pqInternet.com.

    Add to Google Toolbar
    My Facebook Fan Page
    Twitter
    Add www.pqInternet.com, to Google. Add www.pqInternet.com, to My Yahoo! Add www.pqInternet.com, to My MSN. Subscribe to www.pqInternet.com, with Bloglines Add www.pqInternet.com, to Your Technorati Favorites! Add www.pqInternet.com, to Windows Live

    rs

    Some photos are by: Lee Hinshaw Photography

    © Copyright 2006 - 2011 PhaseQuest, all rights reserved.

     

    Get Free Updates!

    Insert your name and e-mail address to receive a short notice each time I make a new post.

    First Name:

    Last Name:

    E-Mail Address:

    E-Mail again:

    NOTE: You will receive a confirmation email. You must click the link in the email to activate your free updates. Please check your spam folder(s) if you don't receive the email.

    *I value your privacy and will never sell, rent, giveaway, or abuse your information.